tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post3005528222423627449..comments2023-03-25T14:18:10.916-05:00Comments on the MA'd Goddess: WIELDING A BIG STICKJudith-Annhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06708910937086828372noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post-44581931507272046192009-03-11T19:09:00.000-05:002009-03-11T19:09:00.000-05:00I'm so glad to see that the MadGoddess is back.Whe...I'm so glad to see that the MadGoddess is back.<BR/><BR/>Whew. That's a lot to think about, and be in the midst of experiencing and sorting out. As my new lawyer said the other day, "you enabled him for years to think he can control you." It's that darn desire to please everyone so that by the time our blood stops they can't hear our voices, only their own. <BR/><BR/>I say put on the sandals to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post-68051861073911988582009-03-11T13:14:00.000-05:002009-03-11T13:14:00.000-05:00Stand firm. Why do women mix up love with happines...Stand firm. Why do women mix up love with happiness? Just because you marry someone does not mean you are responsible for their happiness (or vice versa). You'll figure out a way to live the dream... sunny respites, cottage, and garden too. Just take it a day at a time. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post-63340763738004679302009-03-08T13:34:00.000-05:002009-03-08T13:34:00.000-05:00Anaonymous,Thanks for your supportive comments. Y...Anaonymous,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your supportive comments. You have been a true sister/friend and I'm lucky to have you in my life.<BR/><BR/>Ann,<BR/><BR/>Thank you for the compliment. I am finding my voice and it seems to be coming in louder and clearer each day. As for the daunting future, take heart; each phase of life has it's ups and downs.<BR/><BR/>Walking on the beach yesterday (my last,Judith-Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708910937086828372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post-20858086813860612282009-03-05T17:48:00.000-06:002009-03-05T17:48:00.000-06:00Hi Judith Ann,You're a great writer. I find this p...Hi Judith Ann,<BR/><BR/>You're a great writer. I find this post daunting because I thought this phase of marriage--with preschoolers--was as hard as it comes (illness aside). Joy, what awaits us!<BR/><BR/>Glad you are finding your voice, though!Ann Imighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01383249597505013239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7112908205066997085.post-27343603246228844842009-03-05T14:28:00.000-06:002009-03-05T14:28:00.000-06:00My mother has passed now, I have her journals she ...My mother has passed now, I have her journals she wanted to burn...Alz has a way of forgetting what was so deep in her heart. She married after 50, he had a great job and was gone all the time. Then, he became disabled. It took a huge financial and emotional toll and she was in a prison much like you. She writes what a terrible mistake she made. A wise doctor of hers told her...you know Gina, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com